Episode 19

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20th Jun 2025

Messy Advice… | Why Is Loving My Neighbour So Awkward?



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Description

Today's question: "Every time I try to reach out to someone, I overthink everything. I worry they'll find it weird or that I'm being too much. How do I care without spiralling into anxiety or self-doubt?"

Your messy adviser, Johan, dives into the awkward art of loving your neighbour when anxiety threatens to turn every act of kindness into a social escape room. Through relatable stories—think panicking over pasta or endlessly drafting that encouraging text—this conversation shines a curious light on why caring for others so often feels so complicated. With stats, biblical wisdom, and plenty of good-natured humour, Johan reminds us that moments of awkwardness, hesitation, and messy effort might just be part of holy care. Whether your summer’s filled with neighbourhood waves or anxiety-fuelled “maybe next times,” you’ll find a dose of encouragement to keep showing up as your delightfully imperfect self.

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Neighbourly
Equipping communities and the Church to love neighbours well
Neighbourly is a warm, story-driven podcast hosted by Shannon Steeves. Every two weeks, Shannon sits down with a guest to share honest stories of ordinary people offering extraordinary care.
Each episode also includes a short Neighbourly Headlines reflection, highlighting a Canadian story of neighbours showing up in meaningful ways.
You’ll leave encouraged, grounded, and equipped with one simple step you can carry into your own life.
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